the grass is always greener

Bottle drying racks are hardly a conversation piece...until now. Boon's Grass is not only practical, but it's bound to catch your eye, especially amidst all the utilitarian models on store shelves. What's handy is that Grass comes in two parts, so you can wash the base and "grass" separately. We like the whimsical design that makes it look like it could double as a liner for an Easter basket--or maybe that's just wishful thinking that spring is right around the corner. If you're into products that don't scream "baby," then this is the drying rack for you. Because the "blades" don't conform to standard bottle size, you can dry practically anything you like on it: sippy cups, bottles, utensils, pacifiers, etc. Hey, it even works as a cushy place to dry "big kid" beverage tumblers, too. Now you can literally take over your kid's turf--how refreshing.

In a Nutshell: Something that has actually has a life beyond the baby years? We'll take two...

music to little ears

You may have been doing 100% baby-related stuff since you found out you were expecting. But just because you'll be someone's mom soon doesn't mean you have to forget about your likes, too. Better yet, why not share them? If sweet tunes are your passion, let your baby-to-be take a listen to your playlist. bellybuds wearable speakers are the latest way to bond in utero and introduce your child to the sound of music. Dubbed as 'audio in utero to go,' these speakers are the ticket to enjoying your time with your baby before she officially arrives. Simply affix the speakers to your growing belly by applying a dab of the hydra-gel adhesive on the bottom of each one. Then, connect them to your iPod and crank up the volume (well, not too high). Since developing babies can begin to hear as early as 5 months, you've got plenty of time to get her up to speed on everybody from ABC to ZZ Top.

In a Nutshell: It'll more fun acquainting your little one with the Black Eyed Peas than pureed peas. Be prepared to experience a lot of kicking!

the sooner, the better

When you're trying to get pregnant, waiting for a positive result can feel like an eternity. Now, with First Response Early Result Pregnancy Test, it doesn't have to be painfully slow. This patent-pending at-home pregnancy test, which hit store shelves this week, can detect whether or not you're pregnant up to six days before your missed period -- that's one day earlier than any of the other tests currently on the market. The test works by detecting a pregnancy hormone at lower levels than usually necessary. Like usual, simply hold the strip in your urine stream, wait three minutes and you'll see two pink lines for pregnant and one line if you're not.

In a Nutshell : This test will buy you an extra day of less fretting and more time to celebrate. Now you'll have more time to start shopping for those little booties.

stroller recall

Just as we report on cool, new baby and kids' products, it's also our job to let you know about recalls, especially if they're about an item we originally reviewed. Last June, we raved about the Cybex line of umbrella strollers. In accordance with the CPSC, the company's U.S. distributor has issued a recall of its Cybex Ruby, Onyx and Topaz models. The strollers' hinge mechanism may pose a threat to a child if he places his fingertip inside the hinge. If you've purchased one of these Cybex strollers, you can contact Regal Lager for a free hinge cover retrofit kit.

In a Nutshell: Purchased a Cybex stroller? Call (800) 593-5522 or click on the link above to visit the Regal Lager Web site. Better to be safe than sorry.

some-bunny needs to brush her teeth

When my older daughter's first teeth came in, I was a bit perplexed by how to clean them properly. Using my bare finger? Yuck! That strange-looking rubber thimble with bristles that came in her grooming kit? No, thanks...MAM has come out with an adorable first teeth cleaner that will make the experience pleasant for the both of you. The Oral Care Rabbit is a bunny-shaped soft cloth that gets the job done--and distracts your baby enough to get it done quickly and effectively. Just slip your index finger inside one of the bunny's ears and brush away. You can either wet it as you would a washcloth, or keep it dry. And if your little bunny happens to be teething, you can try massaging her sore gums for some much-needed relief. Carrots are optional.

In a Nutshell: A product to promote oral hygiene for your little one? We're all ears...

oh, the places they'll go

History can turn off some kids faster than you can say, "Time to pick up your room." Chalk it up to living in a fast-paced world where instant gratification is the norm...kids just don't get that jazzed about stuff that's happened long ago, let alone 5 minutes from now. PBS Kids must have had this in mind when it recently launched its new Web series, Wilson & Ditch: Digging America. It's an activities-packed online destination that aims to make American history, geography and culture a little more...well, lively. The series stars two fun-loving gophers who road-trip across country and learn quite a bit along the way. My 5-year-old and I checked it out and, considering our limited real-world traveling experience, had quite an adventure. Games like Road Quest take license plat spotting to a new virtual level, while Picture Yourself let us drop our own digital photos into various backdrops. (Now, Peyton can feel like she's been to the desert, minus the dry heat!) There are also downloadable activities, podcasts and travel journals that will undoubtedly inspire wanderlust.

In a Nutshell: History, boring? We'd never utter those two words in the same sentence. Plus, we have a new list of places we'd like to visit that don't require a passport.

snug as a...baby?

Cold winter days like these are a foregone conclusion for many of us. If you think it's tough to put your feet on the ground after a warm night snuggled in your bed, imagine being a newborn unearthed from her snug cocoon. (Moms who have to wake sleeping babies in order to pick up their older child from preschool, take note). The Snug & Tug makes the get-up-and-go a little more...well, bearable for little ones. This swaddling blanket's new design lets you slip the straps and buckles of a car seat through the blanket's opening (see above) without disturbing your sleeping child. It works in strollers, too, so if you're an on-the-go mom, you'll truly appreciate this blanket's resourcefulness.

In a Nutshell: Your mom always said, "Never wake a sleeping baby." Now you really don't have to. Those winter days are a little less awful now. Now what can we do about our own cold tootsies?...

virtual love

Less than one month to Valentine's Day and counting...if you're looking for a different kind of way to let your special someone know how much you care (think: long-neglected spouse who's done his fair share of nighttime feedings), check out the latest trend in greeting cards. Hallmark's Webcam Greetings take an ordinary paper card and turn it into a three-dimensional experience that makes characters and images practically come to life. After receiving your specially marked card, you follow the directions off the designated Web site and then hold it up to the site's webcam. It doesn't matter which way you turn the card; the animation will track and follow your movement. It's like watching a mini movie and believe me, you'll be a captive audience. There are currently 10 Valentine's Day webcam cards available, and additional cards for other occasions will be rolled out later this year.

In a Nutshell: When candy and flowers just won't do, here's a gift that's more than memorable. Get your (virtual) groove on by telling your sweetie you love them in cyberspace--and beyond.

foot candy

Even the greatest pair of kids' shoes is meaningless without comfortable socks or hosiery; you can't go very far without them! I like to think of pediped's new Tights and Socks as the perfect accompaniment to its fashionable, yet functional footwear, which we reviewed last year. They are well-made, eye-catching (shown here in bubble gum pink)and meant to take your child through any number of paces. If I look at my 5-year-old's typical day, that means moving from the bus stop, to the classroom, onto the playground and eventually back outside into the yard (weather-permitting, of course). I like that when we wait for the bus on our blustery, waterfront street, her toes haven't turned into icicles before boarding. pediped's tights are made from pima cotton, which keeps her warm, but not feeling overheated. A touch of Lycra in them gives her the freedom of movement--and with all that aforementioned activity, it's a must for any busy gal!

In a Nutshell: Don't skimp on socks; protect your kids' feet with quality socks and tights that will keep them light on their feet. While you're at it, check out the organic line of socks and tights, too.

get organized!

Today, I hit the jackpot: I found the one thousandth crushed Cheerio in the bottom of my purse. (Frankly, after 5+ years of motherhood, I'm surprised there weren't more!) If your bag has become a bottomless pit and plays home to one too many broken crayons, used tissues and lollipop wrappers, you know that trying to locate your car keys can sometimes become a game of hide-and-seek. The Ultimate Purse Organizer seeks to put an end to that type of frantic searching once and for all. Now before you say it's not for me, consider this: this organizer is interchangeable and can be used to fit any medium- to large-sized handbag or tote. The six pockets provide ample room for your cellphone, keys, Chapstick and oh yes, a stash of lollipops. When you're ready to change bags, simply remove it and pop it inside your new bag of choice. No need to weed through everything, and your necessities remain contained in the proper place.

In a Nutshell: This purse organizer will be the envy of your most anally retentive mommy friends. And now you'll finally be able to get your hands on those gift cards before they expire.

mommy's little helper

In keeping with one of my New Year's resolutions--keep it simple--I happily opened my new Cuisinart Rice Plus Multi-Cooker, excited at the prospect of what awesome culinary wonders it could produce. After several days of frigid temps here in the northeast, some comfort food was in order and with Sunday dinner looming in the not-so-distant future, I thought why not give it a whirl? I first looked about this new product at a mommy bloggers brunch I recently attended, and couldn't help but notice how many moms were poring over the Cuisinart table with more enthusiasm than a sale at Bloomingdale's. Naturally, I was curious, too. While I consider myself a relatively able cook, my dishes are hardly works of art, often sticking to a basic repertoire of meatloaf, roast chicken and spaghetti and meatballs. How nice it might be to give a new recipe a try in a sleek gadget designed for one-pot family meals? Well, the Cuisinart Multi-Cooker did not disappoint. Simply add your ingredients, set a desired time and you're good to go. What's really cool is the Fuzzy Logic technology--no, I'm not talking about how to reason with your kids when you're sleep-deprived. It's a special technology that detects fluctuations in cooking and automatically adjusts your settings, so dinner doesn't go up in smoke and tastes great. If you're a working mom, you're sure to love the Keep Warm feature that lets your food stay just hot enough for you to walk in the door and get the table set. As for my family, our dinner of chicken cacciatore was a hit; the chicken was tender and the veggies, robust. And hey, if the kids eat it, isn't that the best measure of success?

In a Nutshell: Set it and forget it? The Multi-Cooker is sure to dish up some crowd pleasing meals, all the while keeping meal prep simple. Clean-up is a snap, too.

in-flight entertainment

There's nothing more jarring on an airplane than a crying baby. I can remember during my former life, how many flights I took for business and pleasure that were made less pleasurable by an unhappy little traveler. While older kids can be occupied by a movie or handheld gaming device, little ones don't yet possess the attention span we wish they could. That's why the ingenuity behind the AirPlay may finally put this headache to rest once and for all. The same company that brought you the Snack & Play Travel Tray that we reviewed earlier this year is back at it--this time, with a solution to entertain the age 2 and younger crowd. This double-sided activity center slips over a standard airplane tray table to turn an eating surface into a self-contained play space for babies ages 6 months-24 years. If your child is not yet mobile (lucky you), this is a great way to keep her amused while on your lap. There are plenty of fun choices: a crinkly strip, an oversized button, buckle and zipper and even a mirror for the ever-popular game of peek-a-boo. What's great is that your child can use AirPlay even if the tray table is locked and stowed away in its upright position. That's right--a way to keep busy even during landing.

In a Nutshell: You may not be able to take that trip sans kids this year. But if you are traveling with your baby, this clever product may buy you a few moments of peace that you crave.

incognito nursing

Discreet breastfeeding may sound like an oxymoron, but it doesn't have to be. If you have a new mom on your holiday gift list, treat her to a gift set from Bebe Au Lait, so she can nurse her baby in style. The company with the catchy moniker is known around the Hollywood mommy scene for its nursing covers in fashionable prints that keep exposed moms under wraps during feeding time. The neckline is flattering, not to mention forgiving, giving moms (and babies) plenty of breathing room. A prettily packaged gift set includes one nursing cover and three matching burp cloths--the perfect present for the newbie mom who's a bit tenuous about breastfeeding in public.

In a Nutshell: Breastfeeding moms don't have to bare all. Much like a good cup of joe, Bebe Au Lait's nursing covers are a real treat--minus the caffeine.

Signs of Santa

As a parent, I find that one of the greatest joys of celebrating Christmas with young children is the magic of Santa. I have my own fond memories of leaving a stalk of celery for my favorite reindeer (Blitzen, of course) and ensuring that my father put out the fire in our fireplace before he went to sleep (he always did). Now as the mother of two young girls, the unmistakable look of utter delight and joy in their eyes on Christmas morning is something you can't wrap up and put a bow on; it's a gift I savor each year. But if you find that your own children are less convinced about the existence of the Man in the Red Suit, maybe you could use a little help. Santa-Clues delivers the proof that Jolly Old St. Nick did, indeed, pay a visit to your home. In a neat little house-shaped box are Santa's glove, glasses, coat button, a piece of his red suit, coat button and even a toy list. Stencil designs let you make boot prints and even reindeer hoofs, complete with magic snow. While you may not decide to use all of these supplies--less can be more, depending on the child--you'll certainly have enough in your arsenal to proclaim his arrival.

In a Nutshell: Skeptical about St. Nick? Yes, Peyton, there is a Santa Claus.

a place to rest that juicebox

My 5-year-old has been "trained" to know that once she's finished sipping her drink, she needs to locate a proper resting place for it--or, as we grown-ups have come to know it as, a coaster. And as most of us know, it helps when products are kid-friendly and eye-catching, while conveniently disguised as a clever product that gets the job done. That's why I really like the Coasters for Kids, a line of whimsically designed drink "resters" that look so cool, kids won't even realize they're practicing good manners while using them. Each coaster features a beverage of choice--milk, orange juice and more--and identifies said drink with a fun, boldfaced graphic. Using them can turn into a game--hey, isn't everything you want your kid to do disguised as such? Pre-readers can match his drink to the correct photo, while older kids can show off their newly acquired reading skills. Or, kick it up and notch and make it silly ("What? You put your milk on the lemonade coaster? Does that mean a yellow cow made lemonade?) Yeah, I know; don't quit my day job...

In a Nutshell: Get rid of those annoying drink circles on your coffee table, once and for all. Coasters for Kids make for great, unusual stocking stuffers.

A sucker for Santa

Yup, I mean what I say; the big guy in the red suit really does it for me. So when MAM came out with its line of Holiday Pacifiers, I couldn't resist. If someone had shown me these five years ago, I would have scoffed at the very notion of a pacifier (not my kid!). And yet when my now-18 month old was a mere babe and we couldn't quiet her constant crying jags, a "binky" (not my favorite word) was the only thing that seemed to calm her--and us. These seasonal suckers are quite festive-looking, available in snowman, doves, reindeer and Santa designs. MAM has a reputation for well-designed feeding supplies and these BPA-free pacifiers are no exception. They are orthodontic in shape and feature tiny air holes in the shield to prevent skin irritation. Chafed skin is the last thing you want for holiday photos.

In a Nutshell: Your little one will be all smiles when you give her one of these pacifiers, which make great stocking stuffers. Eat your heart out, Maggie Simpson.

safe drinking on Cyber Monday

No, I'm not referring to what responsible parents should be practicing as the start of the holiday party season kicks off. I'm talking about safeguarding your baby from drinking out of bottles that aren't environmentally sound. BornFree has a complete line of bottles, sippy cups, pacifiers and other feeding supplies that are BPA- and PVC-free. If you are making the choice to rid your bottle racks and cabinets of any potentially harmful plastics, switching to a line that is chemical-free is a wise move. BornFree's bottles are available in both plastic and glass, for all you retro mommies out there. The bottles also tout a specially designed venting system, designed to reduce colic and inner ear discomfort. Savings alert: If you order online today, you can take advantage of BornFree's Cyber Monday free shipping for orders of $20 or more.

In a Nutshell: Let your little one drink responsibly with bottles that are BPA-free. We'll drink to that, too.

washing our hands of germs

A-choo! In my last post, we covered a product that provides some relief for babies suffering from coughs and colds. This time, the ever-popular hand sanitizer is this season's best friend in keeping kids and adults healthy when hand-washing isn't possible. You know how it goes: your preschooler is ready for her snack, but her little hands have just been gripping shopping cart handles as though she were holding on for dear life. Rather than hand over the Goldfish right away, you grab some CleanWell hand sanitizer, apply them to her grubby little hands and voila, snack can be served! This line of hand sanitizing sprays, soaps and wipes come in travel sizes, so you can easily stash them in your purse or diaper bag. Plus, the fact that they are made from natural ingredients found in plants like thyme will put your mind at ease. I love the yummy flavors in the antibacterial hand soap line, especially orange vanilla and spearmint lime. And CleanWell is safe for kids, too.

In a Nutshell: When you can't get to a restroom, hand sanitizers save the day--and your sanity.

babying your baby's cough/cold

My daughter's kindergarten class has been racking up absentees lately, thanks to the start of cold and flu season. The last thing I want is for my 18-month-old to come down with a case of the sniffles. Heaven forbid she does, I want to be prepared that we have something on hand to give her a little relief. While I'm a fan of eucalyptus rubs that work their magic by opening up breathing passages, I don't want to recall that medicinal smell from my own sick days as a child spent in bed with a rattling humidifier and mugs of chicken broth (remember those?). That particular scent can be a bit overpowering, especially for little noses. I like the fact that Bella B Little Bee Rub is balanced out by a calming lavender fragrance, so she doesn't quite like, well, a floor cleaning polish. The rub's organic ingredients are kind to sensitive skin and because it's menthol-free, it's safe for all ages--even newborns.

In a Nutshell: A little cold relief goes a long way. Here's hoping your busy little bee won't have to use up the entire rub this winter...

Maclaren responds to recall news

In light of the recent recall of Maclaren strollers, the company has issued an official statement to its customers. If you own one of these strollers, or know someone that does, be sure to contact the company to receive a hinge cover kit. Here is what Maclaren has to say to consumers:

At Maclaren safety is at the heart of what we do because of the consumers we serve. It is with the youngest consumers in mind that we design our products with the utmost care and engineering, not only to provide a smooth ride but a safe one.

We regret that children have been injured while using our product and we acknowledge that parents may be upset or even angry. That is of our deepest concern and makes us even more committed to serve you better.

As many of you know we have voluntarily recalled our strollers in the United States and are providing hinge cover kits to remedy the problem. We fully understand that the recall has not been perfect and that consumers have had some difficulty requesting the hinge cover kits. Over the past few days we have improved our system and it is now better suited to respond to the needs of our consumers.

While the recall is only in the US market we are providing kits to any of our customers no matter where they may live.

Parents expect a Maclaren stroller to be of the highest quality and safe for use. Our long record of safety is why we are one of the most trusted names with parents around the world. We are confident that the action we have taken will rebuild and maintain that trust. Ensuring safety is crucial to the long-standing relationship we have built with parents for more than 40 years.

Our commitment to parents is to provide the safest stroller on the market. There is simply nothing more important to Maclaren than the safety of a child.

give the gift of reading

This entry marks what will be the first of several holiday gift write-ups, since we are (gasp!) fast approaching the start of the season. What I like about this particular suggestion is its universal appeal; from kids to grandparents, giving the gift of reading is one that never goes out of style and is right for any age. And if your gift list is like mine, it also includes babysitters, bus drivers and others who deserve to be recognized for their year-round kindness. If you are hard-pressed about what to give that will be actually be used, but that won't make a gaping hole in your wallet, try BookSwim. Dubbed the Netflix of books, it's a book rental service that lets you "borrow" books without having to commit to a purchase price that's too big for your budget. Right now, BookSwim is offering $10 gift certificates for everyone on your shopping list. Simply send your gift recipients an e-greeting--you select the delivery date--or print out your e-greeting and gift card and box it up nicely for a personal touch. Know that your hairdresser devours chick lit? Include a suggestion in your greeting for the latest Jennifer Weiner title. After all, she does your roots so nicely...

In a Nutshell: When the standard gift card fare won't do, here's one that shows you put some thought into your holiday shopping, and that's bound to please even the hardest-to-buy-for person on your list. And now you finally know what to get your great Aunt Sue.

diaper bag does double duty

These days, it makes even more economic sense when you can find a product that extends its life cycle beyond a few months. And when you're a mom who feels like she's carrying around everything but the kitchen sink, a diaper bag that can outlive its intended purpose is a real find. Chelsea & Main has come with a line of diaper bags that, with a little ingenuity, can be used when you're not toting baby necessities. I like the Metro Messenger style because--yes--even a dad can use it and not feel like all eyes are on his bag. The JetSetter tote (shown above) is another favorite since you can take out the changing pad when you're not using it and fill the side bottle pockets instead with your cellphone and bottled water. And since all of the bags in this line are under $25, you won't feel as though you're breaking the bank if you pick up more than one.

In a Nutshell: Who says that fashion comes at a price? These diaper bags will make up the difference in cost for all those diapers you'll be buying over the next few years anyway...

snap to it!

It may be a little difficult to think swimwear when a cold November wind is blowing, but transporting my mind to sun and surf does help take the chill out of the impending winter. What doesn't help my reverie is having to change my daughter's diaper while at the beach. Forget the fact that she's already covered in sand and sunscreen, which makes her squirmy enough. But the faster I can change this active toddler, the easier it is on all of us. SnapMe Swimwear is one of those "now, why didn't I think it?" products that will have you stocking up on well in advance of beach season. Simply put, this line of girls' bathing suits features two rows of snaps that enable you to get your daughter's diaper off--and suit back on--faster than you can say "She sells seashells by the seashore." What I like about these suits is that they don't gape or bulge, not to mention that they come in stylish prints (like the red floral one above) and are available up to size 4T.

In a Nutshell: Finally--changing your little one's dirty diaper can be a day at the beach. Warm weather vacation, anyone?

stress-busters

Tis the season to be...stressed? How is it that as soon as Halloween is over, the mad holiday rush immediately sets in? You know what I mean: your mailbox is teeming with catalogs galore, the supermarkets have already swapped Christmas trees in place of pumpkins and your kids are drawing up their wish lists faster than the blink of an eye. All the more reason not to let the craziness get to you and instead take some time to pamper yourself. And if you're a new or expectant mom, you have even more of an excuse for some much-needed TLC. Maclaren's beginning line of bath and body care products has something for everyone. From the Alleviating Leg Lotion to refresh tired skin, to the Purifying Bath & Shower Elixir to give her an invigorating way to begin her day, moms will truly relish these great-smelling, organic-based products. If you're looking for an early holiday gift that will relax and soothe via aromatherapy, check out the new Harmony candle that is scented with cinnamon and cloves...pure bliss. And with those cold weather days slowing starting to creep into the calendar, favorites like Calming Bath Milk and Soothing Delicate Soap will be helpful in winding down little ones' days too.
In a Nutshell: These skincare products are worth treating your best gal pal--or even yourself. If a name like Cocooning Massage Oil doesn't make you want to hunker down and chill out, what will?

speaking of safety...

It's the one of the main baby products category that often gets a bad rap for design; how does one craft a toilet seat lock that's sexy, after all? Fortunately, some new companies are coming to the drawing board with safety items that are not only durable, but that are aesthetically pleasing. A safety gate that caught our eye is the KiddyGuard Avant from Lascal. This is one gate that you won't mind installing. Touting a very discreet look, it resembles a large projection screen that stretches across doorways or at the top of the stairs, and "disappears" (or retracts) when not in use. Now you see it, now you don't! There's a time-delayed release button, so you can adjust the amount of time needed to close the gate. What's extra nice is just how quiet it is when closing; you won't have to worry about "announcing" your exit to a toddler with separation anxiety (know anyone like that?)
In a Nutshell: You don't need to compromise your sense of style when it comes to safety; this gate looks as good as it works. The product is just coming to market, so look for it at a store near you this winter.

babyproofing that's stylish?

Yes, you read that right. Safeguarding your little one against possible dangers in the home needn't be boring. A cool new company named Rhoost has taken childproofing and given it an edge with corner protectors and cabinet covers that are functional and fashionable. How fitting is it that one of their products is named Edge Om (left)? Unlike those utilitarian-looking covers you have on the four corners of your coffee table (yup, you know the ones), the Edge Om (left) has a special strap and locking fastening system, so you don't have to worry about scuffing your furniture. And what's great is that it comes in--gasp!--actual colors that blend in with your home decor (say sayonara to boring see-through plastic and hello to black, plum, brown and green). If your little one is already trying to break into your off-limits cabinets, then also check out the Sling Hub. It fits across cabinet door knobs with an adjustable hook-and-lock that will puzzle even the most persistent tot. The latticework-style design may just throw off your toddler and force her to move on to something else. Like turning over your wastepaper basket...

In a Nutshell: It's not part of a yoga chant, but the Edge Om and Sling Hub will make the chore of babyproofing so relaxing, you may feel as though you've just done a Downward Dog.

go green!

Staunch supporters of the green movement--I mean, all you moms who search high and low for products that better the environment--can get started as soon as your newborn comes home from the hospital. With the greenEARTH line, your little one can experience her first slumber on organic bedding, fitted on an organic mattress, resting in an organic wood cradle. The company originally known for its high quality nursery decor and artistic furnishings leaves no stone unturned in making greenEARTH healthy for tender newborn skin. The cradles are made from hardwoods that are harvested naturally (read: no chemicals or pesticides) and are finished with non-toxic water-based products. The bedding and mattress are both made from organic cotton and don't contain any PVCs, vinyl or other harmful substances. And if you thought it couldn't get any safer than that, the bedding comes in a recyclable tote and the hang tag is actually a seed card that can be planted to grow flowers.

In a Nutshell: Outfitted in organic bedding that's safe for the environment and your baby. Now that makes for sound sleeping.

baby goes to the spa

You might not think your little one could possibly be experiencing any stress in her young life. (After all, she has someone to cater to her every move, lots of love and attention from your family...what's not to like?) But if you were also blessed with a bundle of colicky nerves, there's one routine that can either cause you further anxiety or you can make it your saving grace. I'm talking about bathtime. Sure, it can be a big sudsy funfest for older kids, but some infants seem to find it exciting as a day at the dentist. When my younger daughter was born, my older girl couldn't wait until she could be alongside her in the tub. We were both unpleasantly surprised to discover just how much she hated it! Maybe if we had a Spa Baby tub, it could have been all bubbles and bliss. This product joins the rising number of European-inspired upright tubs for babies. You may recall the washPOD that we reported on this past spring. Spa Baby follows a similar concept, offering a clear-walled round-shaped tub (as opposed to the standard longer walls design). It also sports more of a bowl shape as compared to the cylindrical look of the washPOD. The idea of being able to bath baby while she's in a fetal position is meant to resemble the womb and be calming to your little one. (Maybe she won't fuss as much because she also has less space to move around!). One caveat moms should note: This tub is designed for infants up to 10 months, although I suspect that age could go even younger and is up to the mom's discretion and baby's comfort level.

In a Nutshell: This is one trend that appears to be catching on with moms looking for a way to bond and that is bound to be big at baby showers.

things that won't go bump in the night

There was nothing more nerve-wracking for me than when my daughter realized she could stand up in her crib--and get even more height by using her crib bumpers. But because she is especially active and loves to tumble around in there, I was leery of ditching the padding completely. Wonder Bumpers caught my attention for helping solve this very problem. Instead of a standard horizontal design, these bumpers individually wrap each crib rail from top to bottom, minimizing the ability for savvy, daring tots who are trying to jump ship. And I don't have to worry about her trying to undo any ties or Velcro tabs because each bumper zippers closed. And lucky for me, she isn't quite that smart...at least not yet.

In a Nutshell: If you've been fretting whether or not it's time to remove your child's bumper for safety reasons, now you have one less thing to worry about. Wonder Bumpers will work in your crib for as long as your child sleeps in one.

breaking out of the snacks rut

How is it that we are only one month into the new school year and we've already hit a wall when it comes to packing healthy snacks? We try to be creative in this house, when we have a few minutes to spare, and have put together trail mixes of apricots and walnuts. (And of course, cheddar crackers in the likeness of SpongeBob are often a hit.) But when I start to hear the words, "Goldfish, again?" from my 5-year-old, even I cringe. That's why I was more than willing to taste-test the new line of Organic Fruit Snacks from Tasty Brand. I was immediately lured by the Organic Fruit Gummies, having been a Gummi Bears fanatic as a kid myself. But better than the candy I enjoyed during my childhood, these snacks are fruit-shaped and made with fruit juice. If the words "no high-fructose corn syrup" put a smile on your face, then you'll be even more pleased that your child is indulging in a good-for-you treat. I think the icing on the cake, though, was when I found out how Tasty Brand Gummies' sugar content (10 grams) compared to some other favorite foods like Motts Applesauce (25 grams) and Sun-Maid Raisins (30 grams). I think I'll have to buy my own stash now, too.

In a Nutshell: Stuck in a snacks rut? Vary the Ritz routine with a little taste of fruity snacks that are organic and all-right.

safe drinking

Unless you've been living under a rock, BPA is one of those buzzwords most parents are familiar with these days. (And if you're admittedly not on the ball, it stands for bisphenol-A, a harmful plastic substance frequently used in baby bottles and sippy cups.) Acronyms aside, all you really need to know is that it's best to avoid kids' products that aren't touting themselves as BPA-free. Considering the dizzying array of choices on store shelves, I know I feel more comfortable turning to a brand whose name I've known since I was a child myself. Thermos has come out with a line of drinking cups with a name that you'll love to say almost as much as you'll love the products themselves. The Thermos Foogo Phases drinkware collection comes in stainless steel (great for keeping drinks like milk cold for up to 10 hours) and see-through cups (dubbed Tritan). Whether your toddler is just getting a handle on drinking from a cup or has graduated onto larger sizes to quench her thirst, you'll appreciate the sporty, yet sturdy design of these cups. And since all the lids are interchangeable, you won't have to spend time fitting the right top on the right cup when unloading the dishwasher.

In a Nutshell: When I think of Thermos, I remember sipping chicken soup from a mug in my lunchbox. Extending this feeling of comfort to your own child is something any mom can appreciate.

the view from up here

Baby chairs are typically low to the ground, keeping little one's vision at eye level with, well...the floor. The Fresco Fiamma chair from Bloom offers a refreshing perspective that puts your baby right up where the action is. In a show-stopping red contemporary design that's practically museum-quality, this limited edition seat is the latest version of the company's Fresco Loft, an adjustable seat that is perched high off the ground and can be reclined to fit a newborn and then adjusted for a school age child. Because of its wide range of height adjustments, the Fresco Fiamma can work at a counter top, dinner table...wherever you are dining--even al fresco, as the name suggests. Plus this seat can swivel at 360 degrees--pretty cool for a fussy baby. The $600 tag may leave you a bit dizzy yourself, but sometimes that's the price you have pay for high-end style.

In a Nutshell: If you are a mom who relishes the latest in fashion-forward baby gear, then take a seat; this chair is a conversation piece that will have all your mommy friends talking.

sitting tall

No matter how spacious your home is, space-saving products are always a hit with moms. (Just take a look around your house to see just how many kid items have "taken over" your surroundings. See what I mean?) So when a company designs a product that's not only practical, but stylish, it's a real win. The minui HandySitt Chair falls directly into this category. This high chair is extremely forgiving when it comes to taking up space, especially in the kitchen where it seems you can never have enough room. The chair can be attached to most dining room chairs, transforming them into high chairs that can accommodate older children as well (up to 5 years). Because it's compact and portable (weighing in at just 5 lbs.), you can take it with you. And if you have a mother's little helper during mealtime, the chair can be used at counter top or even as a step ladder for tough-to-reach spots.

In a Nutshell: The name may point to being miniature, but there's nothing small about the amount of versatility this chair affords.

a baby toothbrush with ap-peal

Much to my surprise, now is the time to begin brushing my 1-year-old's teeth. Even though she only has six of them--yep, we've been counting--the American Dental Association advises starting good brushing habits at the sign of the first tooth (we're already behind--gasp!). At a time when everything under the sun is finding its way into my daughter's mouth anyway, it only makes sense that her first toothbrush be an appetizing one. That's why I really like the clever design of the Baby Banana Brush from Kushies. The curved handle helps me fit the brush easily into her mouth, while letting me keep her secure. Of course, it doesn't hurt that my daughter loves bananas. The eye-catching, sunny-yellow design might "appeal" to the more reluctant brusher. What's also nice is that you can pop this brush into the freezer and pull it out to relieve teething pain.

In a Nutshell: We're going bananas for this whimsically shaped brush that gets the job done. Time to order a bunch! Readers who place their order online will receive a 10-percent discount when they use code tw10.

more than just good clean fun

Yes, it's true: Proper hand-washing has become the stress du jour for our families. After last season's swine flu outbreak, it's one practice we can't emphasize enough in our households, no matter how many kids you have or how old they are. While we can't watch their every move when they are at school or at a friend's house, we can influence this good habit at home. Many preschoolers/kindergartners are being taught to sing "Happy Birthday" while washing their hands, so they'll know how long to do so. But if your little diva turns into....well, a diva when it's time to wash up for dinner, Disney Musical Hand Wash Timers from Healthy Hands can help get the job done. Out in time for National Clean Hands Week, which runs from September 20-26, these timers snap onto any liquid soap pump dispenser you already have at home. They work by playing favorite Disney movie ditties (like "Under the Sea" from "The Little Mermaid" and "Real Gone" from "Cars") for 20-25 seconds--the amount of time recommended by the Center For Disease Control for eliminating germs. Once the song is finished, so are the germs.

In a Nutshell: Let Mickey or Minnie motivate your child to clean up the right way. This way, we can wash our hands of the swine flu once and for all.

what kind of mom are you, anyway?

Fess up: when you went to the bus stop this morning, were your pajamas hidden under your raincoat? The answer may, in fact, allude to the type of mom you are--or at least, if you are a slave to fashion. Clotheshorse or not, if you're a fan of those women magazine-style quizzes that determine your personality from answering a few telltale queries, check out the BabyBjorn Motherhood Identity one and see how you rate. By responding to a few short questions, you'll can enter to win a new BabyBjorn Baby Carrier Synergy (left) or a BabyBjorn Travel Crib Light. It's all part of the excitement surrounding the opening of the new motion picture, "Motherhood," starring Uma Thurman, next month in theatres across the country. You can also visit the site to enter a chance to attend the movie premiere in New York. Now you'll have a real excuse to trade in those PJs and raincoat for something more special.

In a Nutshell: Here's your chance to win a new product for your little one. Maybe you won't have to feel so guilty about your bus stop get-up.

keeping a bib on it

How crushed I was when my 15-month-old ruined a monogrammed bib that a friend had given as a baby gift. By "ruined," I mean a stain that wouldn't just come out, no matter how much we "Shout"ed it out, as my 5-year-old has dubbed our official spot removal treatment. (Of course, why anyone would give a pristine white bib as a gift is beside the point.) And then when the sleeves on one of her cutest shirts--outfitted with little red anchors--was covered in fruit sauce, I realized that this ship too had sailed. Aren't bibs supposed to prevent, or at least minimize, clothing disasters? That's why I was intrigued by Baggino's Learner's Bib,which feature an extra long front and long sleeves for extra protection. At first glance, the bib looks more like a dress and I was admittedly a bit wary of getting it on my fussy daughter. (Getting her into her highchair is enough of a fight sometimes.) But it was easier than I thought, as I simply slipped her arms inside the sleeves and closed the Velcro at the back of her neck. The bib worked like a miniature artist's smock and I didn't mind one bit if a rainbow of veggies ended up on it, as long as it meant her clothes stayed clean. Lucky for me, the bib is machine-washable. It just may need a bit of "Shout"ing out.

In a Nutshell: If you find more food landing on your child's clothes than in her tummy, this bib will keep her covered and clean.

a mothering magic trick

When I think of all the hats we mothers assume each and every day--cook, laundress, chauffeur, playmate...the list is endless--I forget that magician is sometimes part of the job description. Why is it that kids will do just about anything if you turn it into a game? (At clean-up time in our house, we call it a "picking up party"...) So as the new school year gets underway, I feel as though I must stand on my head for my 5-year-old to get ready. What I don't need to coax her into doing, luckily, is slathering on some lotion after bathtime. I can't figure out if it's the cool name or the great smell, but eco.kid's Potion Lotion does the trick. This lotion for kids ages 3-12 is made from the good stuff: natural plant extracts, aloe vera, coconut and wheat. Earlier this summer, we reviewed eco.kid's Bug-a-Bug insect repellent, and lauded it for its organic ingredients and delicious scent. Same goes for Potion Lotion. With the weather quickly changing to fall-like temps, what kid can't benefit from a little extra TLC on her post-summer skin?

In a Nutshell: No need to pull a rabbit out of your mom; your kid will go for this lotion.

got a monet in the making?

Any idea how many masterpieces your little Picasso has churned out over the course of her young life? Now is your chance to take your child's best work and enter it into ALEX Toys' Ready, Set, Create contest. Kids ages 3-5 are encouraged to submit photographs of their original artwork -- everything from crayon drawings to model clay sculptures is eligible-- for the chance to win one of three ALEX Toys: the Floor Standing Easel and Paper Roll, Little Hands My Tabletop Easel and Little Hands My Giant Busy Box. And moms, if you're particularly pleased with the makeshift studio you've fashioned out of your kitchen countertop, mesh baskets for all those supplies and egg cartons you've recycled into very hungry caterpillars, you have an opportunity to get your 15 minutes in the spotlight. Send in 1-2 paragraphs about how you help encourage your child's creative side along with your child's entry. Winning submissions will be displayed on ALEX Toys' Web site. To enter, become a Fan of ALEX Toys on Facebook. Next, e-mail your submissions to contest@alextoys.com. The deadline is October 15, so roll up those sleeves and get busy!

"backpack"-to-school

You know the drill: The night before the first day of school, you dutifully set out your child's outfit and all of her necessities (and if you're one of those parents who is not loving this later-than-usual start to the new school year, you may have picked out your essentials weeks ago!). No matter when you began your preparations, a child-sized backpack is sure to be on your list. My quest was to find something that was not only the right size for my kindergartner's small frame, but one that she could easily locate in a sea of similar looking styles hanging in the coat closet. The new line of Skip Hop Zoo Packs are not only whimsical in their design, but just enough of a pack not to break little backs. (While those over-sized backpacks may illicit a chuckle, they just aren't practical.) The Zoo Packs have just enough space to tote your child's lunch, crayons...all the "bear" necessities. I like the roomy insulated front pocket for packing snack. Available in four animal designs (monkey, dog penguin and mouse), the Zoo Packs are a fun way to send your little off to school with personality.

In a Nutshell: A backpack that doesn't break your kid's back? The Zoo Packs are just right for your little wild thing!

no more blues

You know you are officially pregnant the moment you've realized you can no longer button up your favorite pair of jeans--no matter how hard you try. And if you're anything like I am, a good pair is one you treasure and hold on to until that last thread is practically irreparable. When maternity jeans just won't do, you can invest in Denim Therapy, a service that enables you to hang on to your beloved jeans through those nine months and still be able to wear them once you are back to your pre-pregnancy self. Using a special thread selection process, each pair of jeans is stitched with expandable side inseams to accommodate growing bellies. Then once you're ready to wear your old blues again, they can be restored to their previous condition. The cost for both services is $60--comparable to a pair of new jeans that you might settle on once you realize your favorite pair is no longer an option. And a small price to pay for an emotional reunion money can't buy: you and your jeans.

In a Nutshell: Make like Neil Diamond, and be forever in blue jeans. At a time in your life when your self image could use a little boost, you'll take comfort in your trusted pair.

Doing a 360

Wasn't it just yesterday that you mastered your baby's car seat installation? And now your pediatrician has given you the OK for her to ride facing forward, which means breaking out the instruction manual. (Too bad the seat doesn't come with built-in GPS for locating that misplaced guide...)If you had your hands on the Combi Zeus 360, this wouldn't even be an issue. This convertible car seat is designed to rotate 360 degrees without requiring you to re-install it. With so much attention as of late on keeping toddlers rear-facing as long as possible, this car seat accommodates rear-facing babies up to 33 lbs. (and up to 40 lbs. for forward-facing), so you can breathe a little more easily that your child is staying safe and secure. And hey, now you don't have to find that instruction manual after all.

In a Nutshell: Living up to its name, this god of all things car seats is not only solid, but it is packed with standard features like a 5-point harness and energy-absorbing foam for added insulation and protection.

sock it to me!

I can hardly believe how often we lose my 15-month-old's socks--and that I can't even blame it on our washer/dryer, which seems responsible for usurping all the grown-up ones in our home! Much to my chagrin, my exploratory toddler has decorated the floor of one too many grocery stores and our local library with her missing socks. Well, we'll be having no more Cinderella of socks (that's off, one on) in this house, thanks to Stay With Me socks , which proudly live up to their name. Even the most determined toddler can't wrestle these stay-put socks off her tootsies; a simple Velcro strap around the ankle keeps them in place, no matter how much your little one tries to remove them. And as your baby's foot size grows (quicker than you'd like--gasp!), you can adjust the fit accordingly. Stay With Me socks are available in a variety of colors and designs for newborn up to 14 months.

Once your baby has grown, keeping track of her footwear can still be an issue, plus now you have a person who can vocalize her fashion preferences and her feelings (Does "Mom, my feet are cold...I don't like these socks!" sound familiar?). Nowali moccasins are the cold feet cure-all that your kids won't protest wearing. Designed to look more like a sock in a soft shoe, this Swedish moccasin is perfect for padding around the house once shoes have been kicked off for the day. I like that the soft leather non-skid soles work just as well for my sometimes clumsy 5-year-old as they do for my not-yet-walking toddler, both of whom are navigating a part wood floor-part area rug indoor landscape. The fact that they are adorably stylish--designs range from robots to rockets, and monsters to monkeys--is the icing on the cake. Sizes range from 6 mos. to 5 years, and vary by style.

In a Nutshell: Footwear that's fun and functional to boot (pun intended) is a wonderful addition to your child's closet.

savor the flavor..and support breast cancer awareness

After a hectic day with two young children, I'm all for enjoying a cup of tea. A well-deserved treat, hot (or iced, if you're still enjoying this blissful summer weather like I am) tea is not only a great way to unwind, but it has tons of health benefits. I particularly like the new line of teas from Zhena's Gypsy Tea--especially its Pink Superberry Tea for Women's Health. This blend is teeming with antioxidants and vitamins, plus it's a real palate-pleaser, available in a delicious assortment of berry flavors. If you like to know you are supporting a good cause, you'll feel good that 70 cents of each sale from the Pink line of teas goes directly to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation this October. I was never a coffee drinker, but as time passes, I find myself drinking tea more frequently. As a mother in her 30s who has had a few suspicious breast lumps that were successfully treated, I know not to take good health for granted. As I wind down and drink my nightly cup, I know I'm not only taking care of my mental health, but hopefully helping to keep myself around to watch my young girls grow.

In a Nutshell: Good tasting tea and healthy vitamins to boot? Now you know you are really in the pink. This is your way to get some TLC in a cup--and help promote breast cancer awareness.

a nursing mom's saving grace

Breastfeeding your baby is one of the many choices you make as a new mom, and for many, one you may struggle with before you get the hang of it. I decided to bottle-feed both my daughters, but the mom friends who nursed their babies have shared their stories of both the upside--the tremendous bonding--and the downside (soreness, intense commitment and oh, the soreness). When I heard about the Shower Hug, a product designed to give some extra support and comfort to nursing moms, I wondered if it might make a difference. I can remember that even just after giving birth, I was a bit anxious when showering for the first time; the soothing spray that felt so wonderful on my back while pregnant was now a potential source of pain. I can only imagine what a nursing mom might be feeling as she steps into the shower everyday. I checked in with a friend who is currently nursing her infant son and she admitted to not having the easiest time with showering. When I told her about the Shower Hug, she seemed a bit skeptical, but was willing to hear more about it. What she likes is that it really doesn't look like a nursing bra, but more like something you might wear at a spa (hey, us moms will find anyway to feel good about ourselves!). It's a bandeau top made from super-soft terry velour meant for soothing sensitive skin. And what's nice that it not only works in the shower as a protective wrap, but feels good worn during the day and even while sleeping.

In a Nutshell: If breastfeeding has turned you into a bit of a shower-phobe, this wrap will give you a little comfort. You'll welcome sudsing up once again. Now, to conquer showering undisturbed...

easy access art

No matter how organized a mom you consider yourself, I know I can become quite incensed when I can't seem to get to the bottom of my bag to retrieve some crayons for my daughter. Even when I remember coloring books and other gear to keep her occupied while we're dining out, those pesky crayons are always tough to unearth from my sea of used tissues, chewing gum wrappers and the like. That's why I really like the Art-To-Go-Roll . It's a roll-up cotton holder with 14 soft pockets that hold all the art essentials--plenty of space for crayons, markers, colored pencils or your little artist's medium of choice. The spacious pockets make it simpler for little fingers to retrieve and return their art supplies themselves, and yet it stores easily in my ever-bulging bag. Now I don't have to replace as many broken crayons as before and my own pint-sized Picasso can finish her latest masterpiece before the food arrives.

In a Nutshell: When you're ready to roll, don't forget to grab the Art-To-Go-Roll before heading out the door. Your waiter will thank you, too.

early risers, begone!

Once you've passed the milestone of getting your child to sleep through the night, you must contend with the pitter-patter of little footsteps that come in to greet you a lot sooner than you'd like (yes, the words "weekend" and "sleep in" aren't part of a kid's vocabulary). If you've got an early bird living under your roof, you might try putting the Good Nite Lite in her bedroom. This is a great way to show pre-readers that it's not quite time to start the day, even if they think otherwise. The lite can pre-set with a wake-up time, almost like a mini alarm clock minus the sound. When it's time to wake, the face of this nightlight will change from an illuminated moon to a smiling sun--and one that's not too bright to awaken a still-sleeping tot. There are no numbers to read or remember, so kids who haven't mastered telling time won't be at a loss.

In a Nutshell: Just because the sun's up doesn't mean your son--or daughter--needs to be up and out of bed. This clever kid-friendly lite just may buy you a few more precious zzz's.

easy rider

Still haven't mastered the act of closing your baby's stroller with easy maneuvering? Don't feel bad; I still have trouble--and I'm on my second child. What makes it especially tricky this time of year is when you're wearing sandals or open-toed shoes, and you feel as though you've dented your foot. Ouch! The Britax Blink Stroller aims to make this experience a little less painful. Thus umbrella stroller has a fold-and-release feature that lets you collapse the stroller without scuffing your shoes in the process. Amen to that. While some strollers skimp on storage space, Britax offers plenty of room to tuck in those essentials; I know I'm always trying to get my hands on that bag of Cheerios to calm a crying toddler. Blink accommodates riders up to 55 lbs., so know you can hang on to this model long after your little one has graduated to Goldfish. And in a whimsical retro-looking flower print, we love this fashionable, functional model.

In a Nutshell: Don't flip out if your flip flops can't protect your feet. Maintain your Manolos with a stroller that has all the right moves.

leaving a bad taste in our mouths

I don't think there's a more telltale sign of summer than seeing a child joyfully enjoying an ice cream (or ice pop) on a hot day. Conjure up the image, if you will, of a smiling, stained face, dripping with a grape, orange--pick your favorite flavor--juice down his chin. It's one of those childhood memories most of us have experienced and now savor as adults. Naturally, it's why I'm perturbed by another one of these products aimed at parents that errs on the side of caution by robbing kids of the simple bliss of enjoying an ice cream. Pop Pals Ice Pop Holders are billed as an insulated pop holder designed to keep hands warm and ice pops cold. But are they truly necessary? For ice pops that come in plastic wrap and not on a wooden stick, the pop holders slip over them so kids can still enjoy their treat without complaining of icy fingers. To this I beg the question: are we coddling our kids a bit too much by addressing this complaint as something they can't learn to tolerate? Yes, as a parent, it can surely be easier to find solutions for anything that resembles even a slight discomfort for our kids, but in the end, it's not the best way to teach them. As the saying goes, into every life a little rain must fall. Or, perhaps more relevant to the season, yes, you'll get sand in your shoes at the beach and those ice pops might be cold to the touch. But it's also part of the experience, and if you miss out on that, well, you just might miss out on a great memory.

In a Nutshell: Boon, makers of Pop Pals and widely known for their high-end feeding and bath products, strikes out this time. Skip this product and use the money instead on an economy pack of ice pops. That way, you too can enjoy a taste of the season with your child and show them what summer is all about.

sleeping in style

Chances are, you and your family will be hitting the road at some point this summer for the annual vacation. And if you've got a little one in tow who's not yet sleeping in a bed, you know what a fuss it can be to give them a comfortable place to rest their weary head. When a Pack 'n Play just won't do, the Alma Urban Cot/Crib by Bloom is the way to go for posh tots. This wooden folding crib doesn't require any tools for assembly and stows away easily. Because of its sleek design, it's also a practical, year-round choice for urban living where space can be tight. Don't relegate this crib to the attic for overnights to Grandma's; its $400 pricetag can be a bit steep for the thrifty shopper. But if you're one for style and making your baby's furnishings blend in with the rest of your home decor, this is one model to proudly showcase. Alma is available in coconut white or gala green. It's available in Giggle stores .

In a Nutshell: Fashion and functionality come at a price, but this crib is one worth shelling out the extra bucks for.

a baby present with pizazz

Always on a quest for "the perfect gift," but never truly satisfied? This summer, when you're paying a visit to a friend or family member with a new arrival, the Ice-Qube Baby is one gift the little one's parents are sure to welcome. It's a portable package that's chock-full of both the fun stuff--miniature socks, a board book and snuggly blanket in a whimsical print--as well as the practical. That's the stuff you think as a new parents you might not ever use, but when it's 3 a.m. and your baby is burning up, you are so grateful to have: a first-aid kit containing gauze, Band-aids, a nasal bulb and an oral syringe. I know--not exactly the most pleasant stuff to ponder, but if you're a parent, you've been there.

The Ice-Qube Baby is also a life-saver for babysitters who need not only the right tools to handle a crisis on their feet, but the information to get the job done. Parents can fill out the included emergency plan sheet and head out for the night, confident that they didn't forget anything. (A Baby to Go version is also available.)

In a Nutshell: Forgo the flowers and skip the stuffed bear; the Ice-Qube Baby packs a lot in a small package, and keeps on giving.

bug off!

If you've been anywhere near the east coast in the last two months, you know we've had no shortage of rain. (When did we move to Seattle or London?) And with the wet weather comes all those pesky mosquitoes, which appear to be relentless this season. Luckily, those blood-thirsty buggers are no match from the appropriately named Bug-a-Bug from Eco.kid. This hypo-allergenic insect repellent comes in a spray bottle that you'll want to take with you wherever you go. I loved the light, fragrant scent that's much like a citronella candle minus the wax. In fact, when I checked the label, I noticed the ingredients were nothing but good stuff, like vanilla and soy bean oils. One squirt and we were covered--literally. Who knew a day outdoors could feel like a day at the spa? Well, maybe not exactly, but...if you enjoy spending time outside with your kids like I do and don't want to spend the better part of the day keeping the bugs at bay, rest easy. Bug-a-Bug will do the job for you.

And when the kiddies have gone off to bed, there's nothing I like better than relaxing outdoors with my hubby, a glass of vino and...oh no, not those bugs again! This summer, we are putting the ThermaCELL Patio Lantern to good use. It's reportedly 98-percent effective at repelling mosquitoes, black flies and other winged picnic spoilers. It's portable, quiet (no snap, crackle, ZAP! noise when they meet their demise) and has no odor. How does it work, you might be wondering? A special cartridge that fits inside the lantern releases an insect repellent while it's on (you'll need 4 AA batteries to operate it), and provides you with four hours of protection. This lantern is a practical addition to this summer's arsenal to wipe out those buggers once and for all.

In a Nutshell: Protecting your family from bug bites is a given this time of year. Eco.Kid and ThermaCELL make this task a no-brainer.

strollin' in style

When a new stroller hits the streets, it's difficult not to take notice. (Remember when the Bugaboo first came on the scene?) This summer has its own share of fresh faces to check out. Making its USA debut, the European-based Cybex line of strollers will be turning heads in parks and on sidewalks. Aside from being incredibly fashionable and sporty (Callisto model featured above in indigo), the strollers are lightweight and easy to maneuver. I especially like the aluminum wheels that give a rugged feel to your little one's ride without making you feel every bump along the way. The extra wide storage basket doesn't skimp on size; now I can really fit in everything I need to take along for the ride. If you are price shopping, you can take comfort in the fact that Cybex strollers deliver European sophistication without a hefty pricetag (models range from $140-$350).

New Yorkers, take notice: Cybex strollers will make their first official Stateside appearance in the Big Apple this Saturday, June 13. If you'll be uptown, swing on by Albee's at 715 Amsterdam Avenue (corner of 95th St.)from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. and take one for a test drive.

If money is no object and you are one who loves to shop for the next big thing, then the Maclaren Grand Tour is the ticket for your baby (shown here in racing green). This is the mother of all strollers, complete with all the bells and whistles you can dream of. There are safety lights on the front, a built-in clock and temperature gauge (no more guessing whether you need to throw on any extra blanket during a chilly ride). Moms who stroll for exercise will relish the GT's Strollometer that tells you how fast you are walking and how far you've gone--pretty cool. I'm especially fond of the Maclaren name, having put one through the ringer for the past five years. Two daughters later, and it's still standing.

In a Nutshell: Expect to shell out $550-$900 (options vary) for this Cadillac of strollers, and watch everyone's eyes glaze over in sheer jealousy!

getting a "boost" up on eco-friendly living

It's difficult to shop for kids these days without being confronted with green products at every turn. No matter if you're at the grocery store, the toy store or even shopping virtually, eco-conscious products are prominently positioned at the end of the aisle or on homepages, beckoning parents who only want the best for their families (and who doesn't?). The green craze has gotten so intense, it almost makes you feel guilty if you're purchasing something that isn't environmentally-friendly.

Yes, I've reduced my carbon footprint, but the size of my headache has just tripled!

When I do make a green purchase for my family, I like to make sure it's an educated one, and it helps when the manufacturer can back me up with information that makes me feel my choice was a smart one. Kudos to Safety 1st for doing just that with its Nature Next line of baby products. The company uses recycled plastic, bamboo and eco-plastic (that's plastic made from plant resources for all you newbie greenies) in its collection of booster seats, potty seats, safety gates, step stools and bathtubs. I checked out the bamboo booster, and really liked how durable it is and that it complements my wooden kitchen chairs. Speaking of the kitchen, when I toured Safety 1st's site, I found other ways I could be a bit more eco-conscious while cleaning up after meals. If you consider yourself a relative newcomer to the green craze, you can even take the short and painless online eco-conscious quiz. This is one test you don't have to study for, but the results might teach you a thing or two about taking better care of your family--and Mother Earth.

putting the "ohhhh" in yogurt

Baby yogurt. It's one of the first foods I remember giving my older daughter (who, incidentally, turns 5 today!). She gobbled it up and that made me feel that as a new mom, I was doing something right. The brand I purchased by the six-pack was Stonyfield Farm's YoBaby and five years later, it's the same name that I'm feeding my 1-year-old. YoBaby organic yogurt's texture is creamy and it goes down easy--a big plus for finicky eaters. And if your little one is teething like mine is, this yogurt is refreshing on sore gums and nutritious to boot. The line has just been enhanced with the addition of more zinc (for boosting immune systems) and vitamin D (for better growth support). If you haven't yet tried YoBaby, now is the time. If you e-mail me at pambrill@talkingwalnut.com, you can enter to receive five free YoBaby coupons, a YoBaby bowl with lid and a YoBaby bib (pictured here). Bon appetit!

In a Nutshell: Portable nutrition is something all busy moms can appreciate. Give your baby her daily calcium and other essential vitamins whether she's dining on the go or at home. Just don't forget the spoon!

tubtime made easy

Washing a newborn isn't easy on moms' backs. With one hand steadying your baby as you try to wash her with the other doesn't make bathtime good clean fun for anybody. Prince Lionheart has come out with the washPOD, a tub designed to make bathtime a bit more relaxing for babies while being kind to your lower back (haven't you torn enough muscles already just lifting that bulky diaper bag?)What I like about the washPOD is that it works on the floor inside of the tub--a plus right off the bat since you are not bending over as low as you would with your standard tub. Just fill the washPOD inside your bath, lift it out and wash your little one sitting upright. (It doesn't need a lot of water to fill, so it's not terribly heavy.) The high side walls protect your baby, banishing any worries that she won't be secure while bathing. After your baby is clean and swaddled, you can use the washPOD's handles to carry and dump the dirty bathwater into your tub or sink. Extra bonus: this tub is see-through, which gives you a closer look at getting to those hard-to-reach spots. The washPOD works best for ages 0-6 months.

In a Nutshell: Bathtime doesn't have to be a back-breaking experience any longer, and your baby may feel like she's back in the womb--even if just for a brief respite.

Hats off to the birthday girl

Today is my younger daughter's 1st birthday and oddly enough, it's a day that is marked by the weather. Since she was born in the wee hours of the morning, we left for the hospital in the dark. As my husband pulled the car out of the garage and got my older daughter into her car seat, I stood in the driveway and couldn't help but notice the balmy breezes that blew off the water. The wild weather seemed to say, "Something is brewing and something unusual is about to take place." It was the kind of wind that would blow a hat right off your head. One year later, the weather couldn't be more beautiful: an azure, cloudless sky and just the hint of a breeze. How fitting then that my daughter dons a special kind of birthday hat: a stylish sun hat from Kokopax. What I like about the Savannah Baby Sun Hat is the unfussy strap that fits under my little one's chin without a feeling of discomfort. It's crushable, so I can fold it up and pop it right into our beach bag, and it's made of cotton canvas so it breathes easy on summer skin. Two prints, sailor and espresso, are bound to suit your little fashionista and by giving her the sun protection she needs, be it at the park, beach or simply swinging in the backyard, you'll feel good about this purchase. Readers can receive a 10-percent discounts on their orders by using code talkwt2009. Coordinating soft carriers and totes are also available; I may just have to get a bag for myself! Happy Birthday, little one...

In a Nutshell: When you're on the go with your little one, you can look good and feel good about keeping her safe from the summer sun.

soak up the sun...safely

When it comes to sunscreen protection, it pays to be diligent. Take it from me, a skin cancer survivor (and daughter of one, too). When I was pregnant with my older daughter, my OB pointed out a growth on the side of my face that he suggested I get checked. It took me a few years to finally muster up the courage to get this progressive growth examined. I was fortunate that this form of cancer was detected in its early stages. After a rather invasive surgical procedure, I was thankful to put the experience behind me--and vowed to always use sunscreen on both myself and my children. In honor of National Skin Cancer Awareness Month, time-honored favorite Coppertone and another forward-thinking company, MD Moms, are each offering lines of suncreen products for parents and children that deserve mention. One whiff of Coppertone, and I'm immediately transported to the beach and all things summer. It doesn't take much to convince me to slather on the company's latest lotions. For moms and dads, there's Coppertone NutraShield in formulas for body and face, and available in SPF 30 or 70. For babies and kids, there's a new WaterBabies Pure & Simple, made with zinc oxide, and also a SPF 70+ version. The economy-size bottles will get you through an entire summer, and are perfect for stashing in your beach bag. If you're a mom on the go--and who isn't it, especially in the summertime?--you'll really come to appreciate MD Moms baby silk babysafe sunscreen towelettes in their handy dispenser. They work in a flash and are great for kids who can't seem to keep still long enough for you to apply suntan lotion (you know the ones). I like that the company is as its name proclaims: two moms who are also pediatricians, which gives me more confidence that I'm protecting my kids the right way. What's more, during the month of May, MD Moms will donate 10 percent of its Web sales to the Skin Cancer Foundation. And all summer long, anyone who orders online will receive a free sunscreen single with the purchase of $25 or more, as well as free shipping and handling. Just use the promo code SUMMER through 9/4/09. If you want to give them a try firsthand, post a comment to me and one lucky recipient will be able to receive some free samples.

In a Nutshell: Skin cancer prevention isn't something to take lightly; it's vital to long-term healthy living. You take good care of your children all year. Now be sure to take care of yourself, so you can be around to watch them grow.

a grown-up tea party

No matter if you're expecting, a first-time mom or a seasoned veteran, all moms come to know--and appreciate--the benefit of sitting down, putting their feet up and taking a breather every now and then. It may not happen as often as we might like it, but we know it does a world of good to pay attention to our own well-being, whether it be a soak in the tub, a magazine or book to read undisturbed or the simple act of brewing a cup of tea. This Mother's Day, moms have an opportunity to treat themselves to just that, thanks to a new promotion from Earth Mama Angel Baby , makers of high-end skincare for moms and babies, as well as specialty teas--a full line of goods to pamper and sooth. In celebration of mom, the company is brewing up its Tea Party-in-a-Box event, hosted at participating stores throughout the country. Moms will be able to sip and savor a variety of the company's organic teas, including ones for queasy tummies, breastfeeding moms and those who just want to take a moment. And frankly, who needs an excuse to do that? And if that isn't enough to lure you away, party goers will have a chance to enter to win a gift basket brimming with teas and other treats. To find a store near you, check out the Mama's Day Tea Party .

In a Nutshell: If it feels like your cup runneth over a little too often, this is the perfect opportunity to treat yourself. Bring a girlfriend or your own mom along.

warming up to the idea of washable wipes

Who knew that reusable wipes would become a "hot"--or should we say, "warm"--trend? Last month, we reported on the Bummas line of cloth baby wipes. Today, in honor of Earth Day, we are highlighting Prince Lionheart's Warmies Wipe Warmer, a device that works with its own line of eco-friendly washable baby wipes (four are included). Prince Lionheart has done a lot to make this item particularly attractive to green-minded moms. Its Warmies are fashioned from bamboo cloth that is anti-bacterial, undyed and unbleached--that means no harsh chemicals will touch your tot's rear, and you can save a tree. Plus, this warming device has been designed with a special antibacterial ingredient--approved by the EPA, no less--that reduces the growth of bacteria...a fancy way of saying that it's sanitary and clean. There's even a nightlight on the side for those 3 a.m. poopy changes--no fumbling in the dark for you. Moms who have been around the block may remember that the company issued a recall of its wipes warmer several years ago due to electrical problems. But it looks like the company has done its homework and now joins the ever-growing brigade of green-minded baby products companies. Stay tuned for many more like-minded players in this space.

In a Nutshell: If you're looking for the latest earthy baby product and think your little one's derriere is deserving of some TLC, then this one is for you. My own kids were never treated this well and instead were subjected to the cool, wet world of commercial wipes. Hey, it's never too early that life can be cruel...

feeding that goes down easy

Every so often, a product comes along that demonstrates ingenuity and forward thinking, that seeks to solve a problem rather than creating a solution for something that made you think as a parent, "Is this something my baby really needs?" If your baby is about to embark upon the adventure of her first solids, then this product may be a helpful companion. The Flowspoon aims to help babies ages 4-7 months transition from bottle/breastfeeding to liquid-based cereal off a spoon. And if you've ever tried to whet your child's appetite, you know well that a goopy rice cereal mixture is hardly a palatable first dish; more food appears on their faces than in their tummies, or so you may fear. This specially designed spoon may put your worries to rest, luckily. Its cleverly shaped design, featuring a wide open end in which to scoop up the food and small opening on the other end from which your baby will sip, works wonders. You'll be able to watch your child eat just a little at a time, without wasting food and keeping up with her ability to swallow small bites. It may seem a bit awkward to use at first--this isn't the silver spoon you ate from as a baby--but after a few uses, you'll be up to speed and practically in a feeding frenzy.


In a Nutshell: Given this product's highly functional design, you won't mind swallowing a few extra bucks for the headaches it prevents.

music to your baby's ears?

Moms-to-be are taught to believe that their babies, upon hearing their spoken or singing voice in utero, will recognize it after they are born. It's a comforting thought and one that has proven research behind it. BabyChime ,a company that makes necklaces that produce a melodious sound as they gently knock against pregnant bellies, claims to do just that. While this might make for a sweet gift for a new mother--after all, what expectant mother doesn't appreciate a little indulgence, especially when her body image may not be so confident?--it shouldn't be the reason to buy this product. The company offers testimonials from satisfied customers, as well as prenatal research to back up its product's benefits on its Web site. However, no research has been conducted on the proven benefits of the BabyChimes themselves.

In a Nutshell: These chimes may be pretty, but the company's pitch to lure moms into buying a product hits a sour note.

A balm for your baby's bum

Diaper rash is one of these inevitable parts of motherhood; at one time or another, you'll find yourself baffled at how to rid your baby of this pesky problem. Once you've exhausted all those fancy ointments and creams, you might find yourself turning to a seemingly unlikely solution--a dry wipe--that may just do the trick. Bummas pleasantly surprised me at how well they help clear up lingering diaper rash. When regular wet wipes weren't enough, I used a soft Bummas resusable cloth (with a little water) on my 10-month-old's bottom instead. In a less than a week, her skin was noticeably less raw and we were confident we'd be bidding adieu to that red rash. What's more, I found Bummas wipes to come in handy during other unlikely mothering moments, such as when wiping her nose on the go or cleaning her face during mealtime. When I consider how quickly I go through baby wipes, it's great to have a cloth wipe I can toss in with her laundry and use over and over. The multipack of 10 wipes kept me supplied for a week, so I found I was well-equipped how whatever mess came my way.

"shouldering" the burden of a sleeping babe

How not to wake a sleeping baby without having your shoulder cramp up? Now that's a problem worth fixing...It amazes me that a new category of baby gear can be marketed as a "must-have" item. I'm talking about the Shoulder Pillow from iaxisi, a support device whose name lacks originality, but whose purpose is self-explanatory. Billed as an ergonomic pillow that is contoured to fit a parent's shoulder, it claims to provide comfort and security to both sleeping child and said caregiver--and "look good while doing it" (the pillow comes in a number of whimsical, kid-friendly prints). Well, unless the Mommy Fashion Police are staked out in my home, I'm not sure I'll be worrying about my appearance (I've got dried spit-up down my shirt, anyhow). This product does gets points for clever, compact packaging that may catch your eye while perusing the aisles. Take a closer look, though, at those parent quotes on the box, saying their 1- and 2-year-olds "can't leave home without it [the pillow]." Geez, if my 1-year-old can verbalize her preferences, maybe she'll be able to tell me she needs her very own American Express card next.
In A Nutshell: a comfy towel might cushion your little one's head just as well in a pinch--and you can wipe off that spit-up with it, too.

what a kick!

Most bouncer seats defy their names; babies might be able to move around in them a bit, but their motion is fairly limited. If you have an active infant who is not content to sit, then this is the seat for your baby! The Kickin' Coaster from Learning Curve gives little ones a chance to flex their muscles--and then some. Thanks to a footprint-decorated kick plate at the base of the seat, your baby will be able to push off, rocking herself up and down and stretching her growing limbs. (No feelings of confinement here!). My 9-month-old is a poster child for a seat like this, considering she'd rather be on the move than cooped up anywhere. What gives me peace of mind is that I can keep her in one spot while giving her the freedom and entertainment she craves. (The seat is also equipped with two toys that bob along with her as she bounces and music, too). And when it looks like she's had enough, I can turn on the locking device and it becomes a stationary seat. Unfortunately, our days with the Kickin' Coaster are numbered, as it's recommended for babies from birth up to 25 lbs. But for now, we're getting a kick out of watching her go!

food for thought

Baby food that doesn't taste--or look--like baby food? Now that's a novel idea. And it isn't difficult to find a range of choices at your local supermarket. The question is: are you willing to pay more for organic? Many moms are saying "yes," especially when it comes to feeding their baby. The benefits of DHA are highly recommended, making the purchase practically a no-brainer. I considered myself a tough sell, though. Having fed my older daughter standard jarred selections four years ago, I felt confident that I'd nourished her just fine. Nevertheless, we decided to throw caution to the wind and sample some of the new flavors from Plum Organics, a company that touts popularity among new moms and its celebrity following. Hey, if it's good enough for Matthew McConaughey's kid, why not give it a try? After thawing two of the frozen selections--pumpkin banana and super greens (a medley of peas, spinach and green beans)--we were ready to go. My 9-month-old, who'd never turn down a bottle, purportedly spit out the first selection. Still no go after a few more attempts, so we moved on to super greens. Not so super. It appeared a bit watery, so I was initially skeptical. Upon further examination, the texture was gummy and looked more like Jell-O than veggies. Once again, my daughter was not impressed and frankly, neither was I. And when I considered that a 2-pack of 4 oz. containers was nearly $4, I nearly shouted, "Oh baby!" Looks like Tori Spelling and I won't be shopping for the same baby items after all (sigh...).

Skincare therapy

Call it the winter of my discontent...after seemingly endless weeks of snow days, sick kids and a sick husband to boot, it seemed fitting that a baby lotion named Calm landed on my desk--and onto my little one's skin. My 9-month-old was finally the victim of her first cold and even though she was smiling through her sniffles, I knew a little TLC was just what the doctor ordered. Dr. Natalie Geary, actually. This New York City-based pediatrician, recently launched vedaPURE, her own line of skincare specially formulated for baby's sensitive skin. The vedaBABY collection goes on smooth and creamy, practically quenching parched skin. It works great just after a bath and even better right before bedtime, especially on these bone-chilling nights as of late. Products with names like Soothe body cream, Calm moisturizing cream and Butter body cream are enough to make you envious of your little one. But fear not: a complementary vedaMAMA line also works wonders on tired mommy skin, especially when your idea of a spa is five minutes undisturbed behind a closed bathroom door. At $30 and $50 a pop for each cream in the baby and mom collections, you may need to reserve it for those especially taxing days. But when you do indulge, vedaPURE will be the best medicine.

traveling made simpler

A myriad of products devoted to smoother traveling with kids dot store shelves, but who frankly wants to lug around even more stuff? The Snack & Travel Tray from Star Kids Products is one item worth stashing in your car when you're on the go with tots in tow. We put it to use in two ways and both times, were amazed at just how handy it came in. My 4-year-old, who always has something in her hands when we're in the car for extended periods, used the tray to hold her books and games. No need to worry about them dropping on the side, out of reach, because she had everything directly in front of her on a flat surface. Pockets on the side held extra tissues--a big plus during this time of year when it seems like kids are blowing their nose every five minutes. Once we reached our destination and it was time for my 9-month-old to be fed, the tray easily affixed to her stroller. And getting rid of that messy dried baby food was easier than I thought, as the vinyl surfaces wipes clean. I'm not a huge fan of traveling with kids--who is, right?--but this product made the ride a bit less bumpy. And I'm all for no turbulence.

fancy--and functional--footwear

Shoe shopping for kids can be as exciting as shopping for a new pair of jeans for yourself--and you know how that goes. The styles range from red hearts and Dora the Explorer for girls, to basic black or brown for boys and after a while, everything begins to look the same. When I discovered pediped shoes a few years ago, I thought I'd finally struck gold. My daughter was a late walker, so I was especially conscious of investing in a pair of shoes that were flexible and not like those orthopedic-style walking shoes of yesteryear (sorry, Mom). Not only are pedipeds fashionable, but they're easy on little feet. Their soft soles are much like walking barefoot--and we know how much kids relish that! Today, the line has expanded to include shoes for both babies and preschoolers, and run from 0-24 months (Originals) and size 5-12 1/2 (Flex) for kids. This year's spring/summer collection boasts sleek sandals and colorful party shoes (like the Abigail style, featured here) that will stand out in the crowd. Yes, kids outgrow their shoes faster than the blink of an eye, but while they're wearing them, let them put their best feet forward.

pregnancy and beyond

Boy, did I wish I had Pam Socolow's Family Facts Pregnancy Planner (www.Family-Facts.com) last year when I was expecting. If you consider yourself an uber-organizer, then this is the mother of all planners--and one that won't make you feel like you've got Pregnancy Brain. There's a month-by-month calendar that gives you the big picture, but that's pretty standard. The best parts, however, are the tabbed sections: contacts, health and baby planning. Can't remember if your sonogram was scheduled for this week or next week? Or whether you are rH negative? Now you have just the place to jot it all down. The mini binder-style notebook lets you pull out pages easily for handy references and it fits right in your bag. And if you consider yourself a bit of a Nervous Nelly, there's plenty of space for you to capture your latest musings, from favorite baby names to advice tidbits from family and friends--and even a place to vent out the unsolicited stuff, too! A place in the back to stash those shower gift receipts completes the package. Now, if only motherhood could be this smooth...

got cravings?

You don't need to be pregnant to crave some sinfully rich chocolate every now and then--and if you spend your days with the 5 and under crowd, you're entitled to some at the end of each day. (Think of it as your reward for a job well done--or at least for not having murdered anyone.) And with all the medical reports of late lauding the health benefits of dark chocolate, (in limited doses, of course), who needs an excuse? One company's confectionery worth checking out is Nutty Steph's (www.NuttyStephs.com). Her eclectic mix of ingredients might have you scratching your head, but one taste of the stuff and you'll never doubt your cravings again. Standouts include Coffee and Donuts Milk Chocolate, Tropical Intercourse (yup, you heard it right) and my favorite, a concoction of cranberries, pine nuts and popcorn folded into dark chocolate. If you're expecting, you might give the Salami & Paprika Dark Chocolate a whirl. Now there's no need to send your hubby out to the grocery store at 3 a.m.

welcome back

To say a lot has happened since my last entry would be an understatement. I gave birth to a new baby--my second daughter, Presleigh, born last May. Since then, I've been learning how to juggle new motherhood once again, but this time with a preschooler along for the ride. At times, it's been more challenging than I could have imagined, but I find myself closing both girls' bedroom doors each evening, confident that I have done the best I could manage for that day.

Now, eight months later, we've settled into our new routine and I'm able to carve out more time for my writing....which brings me to mt new venture: the chance to harness my experience as a professional published writer who knows the baby and kids' business like the back of her hand, and take it to the high-tech world with a dedicated blog. I'll be using this space to evaluate the latest products as they cross my desk, and give my readers an informed review not only as a parent, but as a knowledgeable, educated journalist.

I invite you to join me as I explore the never tiresome, always interesting world of baby and children's products. It's a lot like parenting itself...

b-day party etiquette

Because the baby is due just before my daughter's 4th birthday, I figured it would be best to have her little friends' party ahead of time--and out of the house (after listening to some sage advice from family members and friends). I am glad I followed their advice; this weekend's party went off without a hitch.

Since my daughter is very into crafts (she even "rescues" used fabric softener sheets for possible projects!), we had an hour and half-long crafting party at a kids' place that caters to pint-sized Picassos. With stations set up for drawing (with pastels, no less!), painting and, lo and behold, reincarnating paper towel rolls and egg cartons into mini Thomas the Tank Engines, she was in heaven.

I was pleasantly surprised by how well it went: no outbursts, teary scenes, fights over who got to use which color paint, etc. The kids are alright!

Instead, I think I was more perturbed by the mom situation. That is, when it came time to RSVP, we still hadn't heard from a handful of kids. Because I needed to give the crafts place a head count in advance, I wound up calling the missing people...only to receive harried calls from apologetic mothers, most of whom said they couldn't make it for one reason or another. Didn't their own mothers ever teach them the art of polite refusal?

In fact, one of the moms I got to talking to at the party, who happens to be hosting her own son's birthday this coming weekend at their home, had invited 30 kids--and had only heard from 19 guests. She was interested in my opinion in whether or not she should call the remaining bunch and find out their plans. I told her to me, it was a no-brainer--and even more important to know when you're having a party at home, trying to plan how much food and goodie bags to make up. That's one surprise that wouldn't be a welcome one.

Now, a few days later, thank-yous with photos are in the mail and one mom even came out on a rainy day and dropped off a gift, along with her regrets at being a no-show. (With a sick baby, a husband away on business and 3 other kids, this mom impressed me with her thoughtfulness, no matter how full her life was at the moment).

I can't say the same for those whose kids didn't attend, and never sent over a small gift or even mailed a card. Isn't that the right thing to teach your kids? Maybe it's still a bit early in the game and/or my standards are a bit too high...but I don't think I'll hold my breath. Let's see if I run into any of them at this weekend's soiree--and if any of them even mention it.

preparing for big sisterhood

My husband and I took our 4-year-old daughter to the hospital yesterday for a sibling class, geared to prepare her for what it'll be like when the new baby arrives. I had high hopes, as a friend had recently attended and thought it was extremely helpful. I should begin my mentioning that my daughter is your atypical little girl--NOT a huge fan of dolls (she'd choose Thomas the Tank Engine over a Betsy Wetsy anyday).

So, as you can imagine, when it came time to role-play, Peyton was not having any of this. Practicing diaper changing and burping...does it get your blood pumping, too? In fact, if anything, she seemed rather bored and wanted to know when we could go home.

More useful, perhaps, was our trek over to the nursery where the nurse held up a live baby for our viewing pleasure. A preemie boy (because "none of our 'regular' babies were available), he was so small and fragile-looking, it made me catch my breath. I looked over at Peyton who my husband was holding up, so she could get a better look, and realized that in a few short few weeks, this little baby of mine would have her place as "baby" usurped, and I felt a genuine pang of pure empathy. Would she be OK with this change in her young life? I could only hope so...

not-so-maiden voyage

As I count down the weeks (one month to go!) to the birth of my second child, I can't help but smile a bit knowingly at the wide world of baby gear. Since my daughter was born nearly four years ago, I've managed to (finally!) figure out just which products were worth their weight in gold (a digital ear thermometer for painless, barely invasive fever checks) and those that still have me scratching my head (wipes warmer? Give me a break...I wanted my kid to learn early on that not everything in life is peaches and cream.)

Today, I'm investing in some items that have emerged since my last time shopping for a newborn: a take-along swing (so much more practical than the bulky, take-up-more-space-than-I-can-bare to-swallow models) and a diaper bag that acts more like a functional tote than one that claims to have a life beyond the first year.

While I'm amazed at the advancement in technology that's occurred--flat-screen video monitors and strollers equipped with MP3 ports--I'm happy to say I won't be seizing them up anytime soon. Call me old-fashioned, but I'd rather use nap time to catch up on e-mails and take a few minutes of a breather than analyze my child's every breath and movement. And as for the music-moving machine, I think I'll settle for the sweet sound of the birds overhead.

Sweet dreams, baby...